Bottle Feeding Through World Breastfeeding Week
As a bottle feeding parent, World Breastfeeding Week can make me kind of emotional. I am constantly reminded of what I fought so hard for but, ultimately, couldn’t manage. I can’t let this whole week pass me by without saying something because I know it isn’t just me…
No More Bottle Feeding Guilt
If you are a bottle feeding parent then World Breastfeeding Week can put a bit of strain on you. I know this because I was one and this same week last year was much tougher for me. So, I’m writing this for bottle feeding parents to know they are not alone and it’s okay to feel a bit ‘mehhh’ this week. I am also writing this so that all of you amazing booby mummas know that us bottle mummas want to offer you support on your journey but can sometimes feel a little overwhelmed by it all.
I am absolutely pro breastfeeding. Breastmilk is food that is perfectly designed for your baby, why would anyone be against it? Sadly, somewhere along the line that has become, to some, synonymous with anti-bottle/formula and that is really not the case. I don’t want there to be ANY parents out there feeling bad for providing their child with nutritionally appropriate food.
The End of my Breastfeeding Journey
I desperately wanted to breastfeed my son and was blessed to be able to do that for a short while. Ultimately I made the decision for his health and for my own mental health – he was better off on formula and I have to keep reminding myself a lot that I couldn’t actually have tried any harder than I did. So, without meaning to, I sometimes find myself feeling a bit bitter over the course of World Breastfeeding Week. It’s not because I hold any kind of resentment towards breastfeeding parents. I just have a bit of a wobble sometimes and struggle to be okay with the choices I made for me and my son.
Every Parent is Different
Some parents breastfeed and take to it like ducks to water. They feed their little booby monsters right up, they’ll have their rough patches but they come through it well.
Some struggle through it, maybe they find their feet after a little while and breast feed exclusively. Maybe they combination feed or switch fully to formula. Maybe they even discover that they hate breastfeeding but their baby just won’t take a bottle. There’s always going to be more to the story than you’re seeing on the surface.
Some parents battle. They fight and cry and scream and fight and cry some more and it just doesn’t work for them. Traumatic birth, tongue ties, allergies, medication… whatever the reason, if you are one of these women I can tell you now, I have cried for you. You don’t know how strong you are.
Some parents choose to formula feed from the beginning. As much as I have struggled to understand that in the past I know damn well it is none of my business. A friend of mine explained her reasons to me once and it was like a storm settling in my head. It was 100% the right thing for her to do.
Some parents would desperately love to bottle or breastfeed but can’t do either because their child needs a tube or other special feeding apparatus. You guys are real heroes.
The point is, lets celebrate! Lets promote breastfeeding and support parents through their journey regardless of its length. If a parent you know is feeding in a different way to you then you have an opportunity to open a really interesting dialogue with them.
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